Navigating Challenging Situations + Working with Difficult Volunteers
Strategies for resolving conflict
Michelle Baker
Last Update 20 days ago

Engaging diverse volunteer personalities and skill sets can be a rewarding but challenging task. Here are some tips to help you effectively manage and leverage the diversity among your volunteers:
Proactive measures
- Open Communication. Encourage volunteers to express their concerns or issues and actively listen to their perspectives. Foster open, honest, and direct communication.
- Establish Clear Expectations. Clearly outline roles, responsibilities, and expectations for volunteers from the beginning. Ensure everyone understands the organization's values, code of conduct, policies, and procedures.
- Conflict Resolution Training. Provide training on conflict resolution to your staff and lead volunteers. Equip everyone with the skills to address conflicts respectfully and constructively.
- Set Boundaries. Clearly define acceptable behavior and set boundaries for volunteers. Ensure that all volunteers understand the consequences of crossing these boundaries.
- Positive Reinforcement. Acknowledge and reinforce positive behaviors. Recognize and appreciate the efforts of volunteers when they exhibit positive attitudes and actions. Use positive reinforcement to encourage desirable behavior.
- Regular Check-Ins. Schedule regular check-ins to assess volunteer satisfaction and address any emerging issues promptly. Proactively engage with volunteers to prevent problems from escalating.
Common challenges
- Miscommunication. Lack of clear communication can lead to conflicts within a food pantry. This may involve misunderstandings about roles and responsibilities, confusion regarding operating procedures, or insufficient information about policy changes. Effective communication is crucial in preventing and resolving conflicts related to these issues.
- Resource Allocation. Volunteers and staff may disagree on allocating resources, leading to tension. This could involve disputes over distribution methods, decisions on which items to prioritize, or concerns about equitable access for clients.
- Low Engagement. Factors like feeling disconnected and a mismatch of skills with tasks can come across as a volunteer being disengaged. Regular check-ins and flexibility are crucial in maintaining volunteer enthusiasm.
Navigating conflict
- Assume positive intent. Approaching conflicts with the assumption that all parties have good intentions fosters open communication, preserves relationships, and encourages collaboration. This positive mindset contributes to a healthier organizational culture, promoting understanding and trust among team members. It not only facilitates the resolution of conflicts but also creates an environment where everyone feels heard and valued.
- Don't take it personally. A volunteer may come to serve in a bad mood, and it's not your job to change it. Refraining from personally taking someone's perspective on issues is essential for maintaining professionalism, preserving relationships, and facilitating effective conflict resolution.
- Your mood sets the tone. By adopting an objective stance, decisions can be made impartially and contribute to a positive work environment where open communication and trust thrive. Focusing on practical solutions promotes emotional resilience and supports overall team morale. Ultimately, separating personal emotions from professional matters allows us to lead with composure, learn from experiences, and foster the growth of both ourselves and our team.
- Change of task. A simple solution could be asking the volunteer if they would like to do a different task. It may help the volunteer feel heard, provide a fresh perspective, and neutralize the conflict. Consider asking your task leaders to switch roles instead of the volunteer, depending on the situation.
- Provide Constructive Feedback. When addressing issues, provide specific, constructive feedback. Focus on the behavior or action causing concern rather than making personal judgments.
- Mediation. If conflicts persist, consider bringing in a neutral third party to mediate the discussion. A mediator can help facilitate a resolution and ensure a fair and impartial process.
- Evaluate Fit for Roles. Reevaluate whether the volunteer is in the right role. Sometimes, a mismatch between skills and responsibilities can lead to difficulties. Discuss alternative roles that better align with the volunteer's strengths and interests. Your board may be an excellent resource to help you navigate these conversations and find creative solutions to reach the best outcome for your organization and the volunteer.
Remember, the goal is to create a positive and productive environment for all volunteers. By addressing difficulties proactively and respectfully, you can often find solutions that benefit both the individual volunteer and the organization as a whole.
